How to Manifest the Love of Your Life – with Arielle Ford

Wondering how to find your soulmate? In her early 40’s, Arielle Ford realized that she had spent all her time and energy on her career and had missed out on love. In this episode, she shares how she decided to refocus the same energy into her love life and manifested the love of her life. Listen in to hear her story of how, using the Law of Attraction, she met her soulmate and was married 3 months later!

What Oprah and Barbara Streisand had to do with Arielle deciding to find her soulmate

When Arielle Ford realized that she was missing someone to share life with, she wondered at first if it was too late for her to manifest the love of her life. As she tells the story of finding her soulmate, she talks about a key moment when she was watching an episode of Oprah, with Barbara Streisand. Listen to today’s interview to find out what Arielle heard that motivated her to move forward in attracting her soulmate.

What does it mean to manifest, and to move from visualization to feelingization?

Do you understand what it means to manifest the things that you want in life?  What effect do your emotions have on the outcome?  In this episode, Arielle Ford, an expert in the law of attraction, defines what manifesting means, and talks about moving from visualization to “feelingization.” Listen in to learn how to manage the negative emotions that block you so that you can manifest the love of your life.

Don’t believe every thought that you have

When your thoughts put a negative spin on what you are hoping for, remember not to believe every thought that you have. This idea was clarified for Arielle Ford when her 80-year-old grandmother asked for help to find love again, and Arielle’s first thought was that she was too old. In this episode, Arielle tells the story of how her grandmother did indeed find her soulmate at age 80.

What should I include on my soulmate wish list?

Do you know what you are looking for in a soulmate?  Wondering how to go about determining your wish list for the love of your life? What is really important and what is not? Arielle Ford has some great advice for you in this episode. Listen to find out the key question to ask about each potential characteristic for your list, and other important principles that will help you as you design your desires.

Episode Highlights

  • 1:30 – Intro to this episode – How to find the love of your life – your soulmate.
  • 2:24 – Arielle’s story of finding her soulmate by spending the same energy on her love life that she had on her business
  • 4:56 –  Preparing yourself to meet your soulmate.
  • 8:30 – What Oprah and Barbara Streisand had to do with Arielle Ford deciding to manifest her soulmate
  • 9:50 – What does it mean to manifest and to move from visualization to feelingization?
  • 14:56 – Don’t believe every thought that you have.
  • 20:22 – Misconceptions about manifesting; what people get wrong.
  • 22:25 – The surprising elements in finding Arielle’s soulmate
  • 23:30 – What should I include on my soulmate wish list?
  • 25:40 – How Arielle Ford did the work on herself that was needed.
  • 27:29 – Arielle’s relationship with her deceased sister Debbie.
  • 31:18 – How can we tell the difference between desperation and a want or a need?

Resources Mentioned


1. Favorite book for women?

2. Favorite self-care hack?

  • Get hair done, manicures, girlfriend time, funny movies, shopping, etc. to rebuild oxytocin.

3. Best piece of advice and who gave it to you?

  • “If you really want to get to know someone fast, go on a short trip with them.” Arielle’s dad. 

4. Female CEO or thought leader you’re into right now?

5. One piece of advice you’d give your 5 years younger self?

  • “Everything is going to be OK.

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